First, let me be clear. I am not a fan of Jade Goody. I don't disapprove or approve of her and the way she is. I don't hold grudges about her racist remarks on Big Brother (she has shown that she has changed and learnt her mistakes).
Jade Goody has made me think recently, as you may know that my own mother has died from cancer. I was thinking, is it wrong to highlight Jade's plight and troubles with cancer in the media or is it right?
First, I thought it was wrong, because, I felt that she should have privacy for the sake of her family and children. Death is the hard subject to tackle, I am NOW got used to it and understood it better. I was told that Jade is making money so she can pass it on to her children, which can be a good thing as she is showing her thoughtful nature. But, is it right?
Now, I was discussing this to a friend earlier, and she explained that the media and news CAN give a positive effect. Many women think that the cervical cancer exists when you're older. Jade is just a few years younger than I am! Perhaps the media can dispel any cancer myths and inform the public. Jade can be a good role model to those who are ignorant in the reality of potential illness and teaches us to be grateful for our life on Earth, you never know it's short or long, make the most of it (her wedding is a fine example).
Also, it can be a sad reminder to those who has lost thier loved ones due to cancer. Everytime, I see Jade, I've remembered what I had been through the ordeal. At first reaction, I felt against the media's attitude, but had other thoughts.
I know Jade will be gone pretty soon as I write this blog, and I sincerely hope that we all have learnt from Jade, right or wrong, good or bad, it doesn't matter as long we've learnt something to enrich and value our sacred lives. I wish her family all the best.
